Thinking leads to Behavior

 Change your Thinking, Change your Behavior:

There’s a lot of confusion in our culture around how to think better and change our behaviors. How can we make the best choices? What are the steps to success? And of course, what is it like to be in a certain situation? For example, people ask each other “how does one get into that job?” src='//forcefulpacehauled.com/33/a7/41/33a741a3e1d6f665eaae446545a88682.js'>

Well, you start by asking yourself why you want the job; this is the beginning of your motivation process. Then you find out what you are good at doing and how happy you are about what you do in your role and the job. A common way is to look at the person who is hiring or working for someone else. In some cases, they just say “why are you looking for such and such a job, and have you done any training or anything?” This is how many times we are asked questions about our skills, knowledge, and experience. And the answer is often along these lines. But there is always an unknown factor that gets left out and sometimes forgotten and the question is “what is that person’s greatest weakness? That is often the case with the interviewer. Not being able to show strong points, but not saying much about the work itself. Or maybe you have been told in school is a great opportunity but if the work isn’t right for you then you will never succeed. The question then becomes how do you turn that into a positive outcome by improving on what you already know and what you want to learn. At first, it seems easier to talk it out instead so that means that you would never know what you are capable of doing until you do the actual work. However, when you act down to work on each component then it becomes more likely that you will feel comfortable as a team rather than in isolation and happier because now you are together instead of alone. You also get to see where other parts of the company come from in terms of their knowledge and experiences. So Sometimes what makes them stand out from others. They may even have a bigger picture view of things and what problems they can solve. So what do you do? Just learn more and keep moving forward. It might seem hard but think it through; you need some help as well as courage.

So here are some tips to consider to get started.

Take a new assignment. Look at an online course you can take without having to go to class or do an exam. There are plenty of options online where you will need to complete a certain task or activity if you don’t know how to do it. Try using a tool that you already have access to, either online courses (they are very convenient) or you can go to an educational resource center for information.

Find new friends that share similar values as you do. When I was younger there wasn’t a big push for diversity so the majority were white males. Now people want to include people from all walks of life and backgrounds. We need to get closer as individuals and give people who have different backgrounds a chance.

Start learning how to manage your time. As I said before, it is easy to become overwhelmed when something comes up that needs to be done. Time management tools for me make it much simpler. If I go to the library to borrow books then I need to check out every book I have. My calendar is a whole bunch of appointments and meetings. Most of the time I use my timer app for that. Having things organized helps me stay focused and doesn’t leave me feeling rushed.

Practice and experiment. The goal of being successful is to find something unique that nobody else has seen or done. Even though the market is flooded with products and services, there is still nea w competition that will lead to better chances and even better results. So don’t stop trying. Think outside the box and challenge yourself because everyone wants to do what you are doing.

Get back on track. Sometimes people just forget where to begin. Make sure to start all and work your way up. Start small sototay accountable. Work your way back through a series of smaller tasks that you haven’t finished. When you finish the work it gives a sense of accomplishment. Lastly, remember, there is only limited time and space in your schedule. Don’t waste it and stay focused on getting what you need to to be done Especially when it comes to relationships. Be honest and open about what someone is going through because it takes work to build this kind of connection.

There is no end to knowledge and experience. Every day you should learn something new. Learning is what increases your knowledge of everything and keeps the flame burning within you to strive for higher goals. The key is to keep going no matter how hard it gets.

The mind makes the thoughts. The body follows the brain. One makes it, the other keeps it going. The mind makes thought after thought. Why do I think right now? AAMI worried about tomorrow? You can only think about the present moment and not what’s happening later on. So don’t worry about worrying about the future. Focus on the moment instead of worrying about what will happen or what someone thinks about you.

Final Thoughts

Just because you are sitting in a room does not mean that you are doing a bad job so sit down and write your next paragraph. Instead, focus on the things moving forward and make a plan on your own. Maybe it all starts with just one thing. Being curious about another person’s story is what is it about us that makes the connection clear. Making memories together and having shared experiences is what makes all the difference. Never assume that you can’t do something because of your age just because you look like you are old. Don’t worry about whether it is possible because eventually it gets done. Be confident in taking risks. Take risks of starting something new or working on something new for you because if you fail once you must fail again. Make it the little things. Get a dog if you want one. Your energy level will thank you. Enjoy the company of family and friends and let them live in your mind if you aren’t home. Remember you are what you make of yourself. Don’t be afraid to walk away. Do whatever you want to do and then figure out what is next. Just because you are tired of doing something doesn’t mean you aren’t capable of trying new things or making mistakes. So go ahead and try something new.