Enhance self confidence

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 Self -Confidence 

Self-confidence makes a person successful and it is not innate but it has to be learned. The Oxford University curriculum is taught in many colleges around the world, but why are Oxford University students more successful? Not because they are taught more than the curriculum, but because of the self-confidence that they are taught at Oxford University.

This article covers 10 self-esteem habits, Doing so will not only create confidence in you but also increase the respect people have for the way you meet and talk.

1. Always accept the appreciation,

People respond differently to compliments. Some people get embarrassed when they are complimented. Always show in response to compliments that you do not attach any special importance to compliments and the best response in response to compliments. Thank you and thank you and don't think that 

Someone is flattering you. Think positive that Allah has blessed you with these abilities for which you are receiving appreciation.

2. Don't try to be perfect

If you have a lot of work to do at home or anywhere during work, etc., if you have to make 30 phone calls, write 50 emails, or do more work, don't worry, continue your work at your own pace and if at work If something goes wrong,  Continue your work with ease and take breaks during breaks so that energy is restored and remember that no human being in the world is perfect and from those people. There are also mistakes made by people who shine like stars in the sky of success, learn from your mistakes and try not to make mistakes again.

3. Talk face to face during the conversation

When someone is talking to you, looking around or looking at your cell phone repeatedly shows a lack of self-confidence. Self-confidence will develop and attention will increase.

4. Keep your back straight while walking

When walking, lift your head and keep your back straight because this is the way of self-confident people. Create dignity in tricks, science says that your dignified tricks take away your stress.

5 . Ignore negative thoughts

It is not an easy task to prevent negative thoughts from entering the mind because these thoughts do come, and fear of failure fails in any task, etc.

Prevent such thoughts from coming to mind and write down in a copy all the things that create fear in your heart for a week and after a week read those things then you will realize that these things often go unnoticed. Some bother you so make your thinking positive and don't let unreasonable fear overwhelm you because this is the first rule of the winners that they do not lose before they lose.

6. The tasks you accomplish are your Achievements

Write your Achievements for example If someone asks you how your day went today, mention what you have done, such as cleaning the whole house today and then exercising, etc., and write something new daily in the copy of your Achievement.

7. Make yourself your ideal

Ask yourself what self-esteem is in different situations, especially before doing the work that requires self-confidence.

Your circle of friends doesn't need to have powerful people from the city or influential people or beautiful people, And without such a relationship, no one gets smaller. Make your CV and apply for the job in different places and get rid of the fear of being rejected completely. Whether the situation is favorable or not, your caste should not be affected, and Be prepared for the situation.

8. Talk to strangers too

It is a good idea to greet someone on the street without even knowing it and to ask about someone without knowing them, where self-confidence builds and improves your image in other people's minds. Also, talk to strangers at parties or wedding functions in a friendly way to boost your self-confidence.

9. When you are free, help others

On the way, if you meet an elderly person who is carrying something, offer him your help. If a laborer is trying to lift a heavy object, stop and help him. Children or old people are crossing the road. So help them cross the road, all these things will boost your self-confidence and your morale will get better and better.

10. Don't waste time on social media

Stop looking at pictures of people on social media and stop comparing them to yourself because it affects your self-esteem, people compare their progress on social media with other people who They. Remember that people on social media share the same image that is beautiful or just show their success. No one fails on social media.

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